Fan Mail Friday #71 | Like a Neckbeard Champion

The Art of Charm

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Business, Health & Fitness, Education

4.7 • 11K Ratings

🗓️ 15 July 2016

⏱️ 17 minutes

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Summary

Time for Fan Mail Friday, where we'll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off right. Let's cut to it! In this episode: If your significant other voices negative opinions about people who have plastic surgery, should you tell them you had a nose job six years ago? How do you learn to trust your instincts to become a better judge of character? How can someone highlight the unconscious conditioning at the root of their problems to ask the real questions they need answered? A listener writes to let us know he enjoyed our episode with Neil Pasricha, and wonders if paying for the full tab on a first date (or casual meeting) makes the man come off too strong? Another listener lets us know how Kim Seltzer's advice in a past Fan Mail Friday helped him gain clarity about his life's direction. Thanks to Victor Mizrahi for being a hardcore AoC fan. It means a lot to us! Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at [email protected]! Show notes at http://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/fan-mail-friday-71-like-a-neckbeard-champion/ HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview Stay Charming!

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0:00.0	All right time for fan mail Friday. I'm your host Jordan Harbinger and I'm here with producer Jason to Philipo
0:05.4	We'll be answering our questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off right if you're new to the art of charm
0:11.7	Podcast this isn't the best place to start because most of our content is a lot more in depth. It's longer format
0:17.0	It's interview-based so check out the best of at the art of charm.com slash best or the fundamentals toolbox at the art of charm.com
0:24.0	slash toolbox if you've got the app at the separate tab and there we've got the fundamentals of body language and nonverbal communication
0:30.6	Attraction negotiation networking etc everything else we teach here at the art of charm and we'll send all that to your inbox if you text
0:37.7	Charmed that's C-H-A-R-M-E-D to 3 3 4 4 4 here in the USA or if you just have more else go to the art of charm.com
0:45.6	By the way funny note Angela Duckworth she taught inner city kids you know that was the beginning of her book Jason
0:52.2	And it turns out that a lot of those guys I hang out with now in San Francisco were those inner city kids and they heard the interview that I did with Angela Duckworth
1:02.1	And they were like wait Jordan you interviewed Miss Duckworth that's crazy man and I was like yeah
1:06.3	Maybe you're the kids that she was talking about were so bad and unreachable and they said yeah
1:10.4	She always used to separate us and it's a small small world it is it is all right. Let's cut to it dear Jordan
1:16.9	I've been seeing this guy for about four months and things are moving along really well
1:20.4	Recently we're having a casual conversation about plastic surgery into my surprise
1:24.5	He has a strong negative view on anyone who fixes themselves up with these kinds of procedures
1:29.0	It's been about six years since I've had a rhinoplasty done and I don't usually tell anyone unless they ask me directly
1:34.6	He obviously can't tell that I've had a nose job and I feel as I've I'm deceiving him by not telling him about it
1:40.0	Do you think I should tell him about my plastic nose now?
1:42.6	Should I wait till things get more serious and then tell him about it or can I get away with not telling him about it at all?
1:48.4	Thank you so much for your time and advice and thank you for what you're doing for the community your podcast is the only thing I listen to regularly
1:55.0	sincerely a OC fan
1:57.2	Well, thanks for that note
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