Fan Mail Friday #23 | Caveman Biology Lessons

The Art of Charm

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🗓️ 14 August 2015

⏱️ 18 minutes

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Welcome to Fan Mail Friday #23 In this episode: You can give her enough space to fly a rocketship, but she's already moved on. You should, too. Another listener chimes in with some positive thoughts about the 9-5 routine we talked about last week. Barfights only look like a lot of fun in Burt Reynolds '80s movies. At least one listener came away from our Chris Edwards interview with a better understanding of transgender issues. For someone considering attending our program in L.A., we clarify that The Art of Charm is about removing masks, not giving people new ones. A wellness entrepreneur learns some valuable lessons about better networking. Show notes at http://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/fan-mail-friday-23-caveman-biology-lessons/ HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Stay Charming!

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0:00.0	Hey, time for fan mail Friday where I'll be answering your questions and dropping some
0:03.2	knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off, right?
0:05.8	If you're new to the Art of Charm podcast, most of our content is more in depth than longer formats.
0:10.4	So don't start here. Check out the best of at theartofcharm.com slash best or the fundamentals toolbox
0:15.6	at theartofcharm.com slash toolbox. That's where we've got fundamentals like body language
0:20.3	and nonverbal communication, attraction, negotiation, networking, and everything else we teach
0:25.1	here at the Art of Charm. Alright, let's cut to it.
0:30.4	This comes from Sean. He says, I've been dating the same girl for a year and a half. I've got a
0:34.4	long history of depression, anxiety, and I've three learning disorders. I'm fine by the way. I'm smart
0:39.2	and learning disorders go unnoticed. From September 2014 until two months ago, I was incredibly
0:44.4	approval seeking, controlling, manipulative, and smothering. My girlfriend became my therapist and
0:49.3	I did every damn thing to push her away. I've never been more aware of that than I am now, and you
0:53.9	have helped very much in the past couple months. About two months ago, I caught her in bed with another
0:58.2	man. We continued to try to work it out from there. She said, I pushed her out of loving her. She
1:03.1	had a good friend die before that, and she felt she couldn't come to me and hadn't been happy with
1:06.8	me for months leading up to that. Okay, that's a huge batch of red flags right there. But anyway,
1:12.3	and he says he continues, but it seemed that leading up to that and that finally happening in
1:16.5	the aftermath, we were in way over our heads. She finally took the initiative to take a break
1:21.2	without actually separating officially, whatever that means, and agreeing to be exclusive.
1:26.4	Rather, she pushed the move and got that ball rolling so she could get her life and head and
1:30.4	social bearings back as well as focus on her schooling and for me to get my stuff back together
1:35.0	and get back to the guy I was when she met me. Okay, let me pause right here. This is what she's
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