Fan Mail Friday #100 | Relationship Exit Strategy

The Art of Charm

http://www.TheArtOfCharm.com

Education, Health & Fitness, Business

4.7 • 11K Ratings

🗓️ 3 February 2017

⏱️ 41 minutes

🔗️ Recording | iTunes | RSS

🧾️ Download transcript

Summary

Breakup Triage: The Cure for Heartache author Susan Winter rejoins us to answer a couple of questions that were addressed to her and help with our usual assortment of email in this Fan Mail Friday. Let's get to it! In this episode: Should a broken relationship be mended when the primary glue is guilt? It says more about the people who have cheated on you in multiple relationships than it does about you when you're always faithful and loving. But maybe you should review your selection process. Is there help for an attention craver who knowingly jeopardizes relationships by habitually flirting with strangers? Let's unpack the relationship exit strategy idea we talked about in Susan's episode and never got around to finishing (sorry)! How do you get over the jealousy you feel when your partner brings up past sexual exploits with other people? Is it possible to set new boundaries in a relationship (especially a marriage) once old ones have been established? Quick shoutouts to psychologist Linda and Lyft driver Simon! Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@theartofcharm.com! With pain-free invoicing, FreshBooks helps entrepreneurs and freelancers save time and avoid a lot of the stress that comes with running a small business. Try a month of unrestricted use for free here (no credit card required)! Enter "ART OF CHARM" in the how you heard about us section. Does your business have an Internet presence? Now save a whopping 50% on new webhosting packages here with HostGator by using coupon code CHARM! Find out more about the team who makes The Art of Charm podcast here! Show notes at http://theartofcharm.com/fmf100/ HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview Stay Charming! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

Click on a timestamp to play from that location

0:00.0	Welcome to the Art of Charm. I'm your host Jordan Harbinger. I'm here with producer Jason
0:04.1	de Villopo and Susan Winter for this episode of Fan Mail Friday. If you're new to the art of
0:09.3	charm podcast, Fan Mail Friday is not a great place to start. Most of our content is more
0:13.6	depth and longer format and interview-based. So maybe go back and check out another episode
0:18.2	or go check out the best of at theartofcharm.com slash best or the fundamentals toolbox at the
0:23.9	Art of Charm.com slash toolbox. That's where we've got the fundamentals of things like reading
0:28.3	body language and charismatic nonverbal communication, the science of attraction,
0:32.3	negotiation techniques, networking, influence strategies, persuasion tactics, and everything
0:37.4	else that we teach here at the Art of Charm. We'll send all that to your inbox if you text the word
0:42.3	Charm that's CHARMED to 3, 3, 4, 4, 4 here in the US or everywhere else just go to theartofcharm.com.
0:49.5	All right, let's cut to it. This first one's a doozy Jay.
0:52.0	Hello Jordan. Before I dive in, the relationship coach episode with Susan Winter has opened
0:56.8	my eyes to defining what I want. Thank you. I'm 24 years old and the woman in my life is 22.
1:03.1	Earlier this year, I started the quest to begin my career after graduating from university.
1:07.8	At that point, we had an unplanned pregnancy. At the time, I didn't feel I was able to afford a
1:12.4	child. Her family stated that they would not support the child and my family lives in a different
1:17.0	country. So it would have been left to us. Her dreams of travel would have been suspended,
1:21.8	and her career start time would have to be delayed. We decided on getting an abortion.
1:26.9	At the time of the procedure, I was sure of the fact that I didn't want the child,
1:30.7	but after the procedure, I regretted that I had to make her go through that.
1:34.7	It is important to note that she agreed to go for it. Weeks later, we started becoming distant
1:39.6	and arguing about things we typically never do. Communication in our relationship before that
	...

Please login to see the full transcript.

Previous episode | Next episode

Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from http://www.TheArtOfCharm.com, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.

Generated transcripts are the property of http://www.TheArtOfCharm.com and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.