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Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Falling in Love with Your Therapist (2019 Rerun)

Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Kirk Honda

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.61.2K Ratings

🗓️ 22 August 2021

⏱️ 46 minutes

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[Rerun] What do you do when you have feelings for your therapist? Falling in love? Wanting to be adopted? Dr. Kirk Honda answers a number of emails on this topic.

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0:00.0

Hey, server listeners, I recently responded in an episode to an email in which someone

0:06.8

wanted to date their therapist.

0:09.8

She said that she had a large romantic and sexual attraction to her therapist and she wanted

0:16.3

to date her therapist and she had heard my other talks on the podcast about this warning

0:22.0

against that and also talking to clinicians out there about how to handle situations

0:27.8

in which the client is attracted to you and how to have boundaries and how to act ethically

0:34.2

and how to predict problems that usually happen when therapists and clients break those

0:41.5

boundaries.

0:43.0

And although I've had many episodes about this topic, I find that a lot of the listeners

0:49.8

or a subset of the listeners, whenever I talk about it, I get a lot of emails and so

0:57.2

this one was no exception or maybe it was the greatest amount of emails I received after

1:01.7

talking about it.

1:02.7

I received a lot of emails from people writing in saying that they had experienced blurred

1:09.0

boundaries with their therapist to varying results.

1:14.1

Some people were talking about how they were harmed by the massive blurry boundary issues

1:22.2

with their therapist and some people said that it wasn't a problem.

1:25.9

And so I thought in this episode, I would read all of those emails that I received the

1:30.4

past couple of days and talk about them, analyze them, and comment on them as a way for

1:37.2

both therapists and clients to understand the landscape of boundaries because whenever

1:45.2

we talk about boundaries, meaning, you know, should you date your therapist or should

1:50.2

your therapist tell you about their divorce that they're going through or what if the therapist

1:55.5

talks about their own children or what if the therapist meets you at a restaurant instead

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