I amla. I had a baby daddy relationship. I spent time in a relationship with a married man.

I had to learn the skills and tools required to make my relationships healthy, fulfilling, and loving.

Welcome to the R-Spot, a production of Shandaland Audio in partnership with I Heart Radio. In today's world, one of the main complications in our relationship is the generation gap.

millennials and exers and zers and baby boomers and and World War II.

We all see life differently.

And we're trying to get each other to see the world in life the way we see it,

and that can create a breakdown in the relationship.

That is the exact situation of my first caller today.

Take a listen.

Greetings beloved and welcome to the R spot. What is your relationship

challenges you dilemma that we can nibble on together today?

Well thank you for taking my call and so excited so excited and nervous, but I'm excited.

Well, don't be nervous. I don't bite. I only bite on Wednesdays when the moon is full

and the date is an odd number. and none of that is happening today.

All right. I am calling because I have not spoken with my grandmother in almost three months and I am calling for

perspective on that and how to move forward. Okay go ahead. So I have not talked to her since very early January, so it started because we went to a funeral.

My sister's grandmother's funeral.

So me and my sister have different deaths

and her grandmother on her dad's side passed away.

And so me and my grandmother and my mom

and some other family members

we went to support my sister and my mom

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