Hello everyone and welcome to the Evolve Emily Show. I'm your host, Emily Hayden. And in today's

episode, we are going to be talking about decision making. I'm here to tell you today to stop waiting for confirmation to do what you know you need to do. And all of you people that are doing that are like, oh my God, this is the confirmation I needed. I'm here to tell you you don't need confirmation. You don't need a sign. You don't need a notification on your phone that literally says, go left or go right.

You simply just need to take a deep breath, trust yourself, and start walking. Anytime I'm making a

decision in my life, I always kind of ask myself, well, what's the worst case scenario if this

isn't the quote unquote right decision? And I think we have to step away from

this right and wrong model and we have to trust ourselves. We have to trust our intuition and trust

what we feel is the best decision at the time, knowing full well that everything that we go through

in life is simply an experience to grow us, to teach us, and to mold us into a better

version of ourselves. So even if the experience that you have isn't a positive one or it doesn't

produce the results that you were hoping for or going for, you can just take a step back and say,

okay, so this is not one of those ideal experiences in life. This is one of those other experiences

in life, which means it's a really great opportunity for me to learn and grow and come out of

this better. And hopefully next time is a more ideal experience. If you can have that kind of

mindset and mentality going into it, it'll really take the pressure off of it.

You know, I think about back when I was choosing to move from Texas to California and I had to ask

myself, you know, what's the worst case scenario? And I kind of played it out and I was like,

okay, worst case scenario is I move across the country away from my friends and family and I go

out there and I end up

broke, and it doesn't work out, and I don't, you know, quote-unquote make it. And basically,

let's pretend that I come back to Texas with zero dollars in my account. I was like, you know what,

that's okay with me. Like, I'm okay with that, you know. Mind you,

I didn't have children or people to provide for. So, and I've always worked multiple jobs in my life.

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