Welcome to the Bear Marriage Podcast. I'm Sheila from To Love, Honor, and Vacuum

where we like to talk about how to make marriage a passionate adventure and not a

giant to-do list and I'm here with my daughter Rebecca. Hello. And we are

two weeks out of the launch

for the Great Sex Rescue, our new book

which is based on our survey of 20,000 women

and how different evangelical teachings

affected women's marital and sexual satisfaction and we're so

excited because yeah it's really creeping up and there's a lot to share with you

today a lot of new listeners probably today on the podcast because I kind of wrote the most viral Twitter thread I've ever done over the weekend on how evangelical seasax.

So if you are here, welcome. I'll be talking about that thread later in the podcast.

But we want to start with a new idea that we are debunking.

Every week leading up to the release of the Great Sex Rescue, rescue where debunking a new teaching

that is prevalent in evangelical circles

but isn't biblical.

Yes.

We looked at the idea that women were methadone

for his porn addiction, like, you know,

they need to put out so he doesn't watch

porn how that is toxic how the obligation sex message is toxic and today we

want to look at the idea that men are sexual and women are not. Yes.

Yes, because God actually created women with a clitoris.

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