Hey guys, my name is John Kim. I'm a licensed therapist and life coach putting

self betterment into a shot class because let's face it who's got that much time

these days. I come unpolished, unrehearsed, on purpose.

If you're looking for more of a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place.

I just want to let you know that if you come across a topic that I have written about

or did a Facebook live or YouTube video on that is the same as an episode of this podcast that the content will be different

because by the time I do a podcast I even though the topic may be the same I will have different angles, different revelations, you know, something different

different.

I don't just cut and paste, although I do take a butter knife to my content and kind of spread it across platforms but

This this podcast is really a personal

Thought journal if you want to call it that and it's completely unrehearsed and I just

speak from my heart and I just want you to know that it's not it's not the it won't be the same exactly the same as the stuff that I write about.

Okay, so let's talk about dating fatigue. I got an email and I thought it was really interesting and a lot of these questions I

pick based on if I think that you know it's a common theme that many people will

relate to and so this one I believe definitely I've had so many clients complain about you

know dating and the landscape these days and all of that so and especially women and

it's not that that men aren't frustrated with dating or dishearted.

But you know I think it's you know women are they kind of turn the corner a little bit faster than men and I think by the time that women are in their 30s they are done with

The games the you know the ghosting the the bars the clubs the clubs the one night stands or they want something real and

sustainable and also I think by the time that, well, all of us, were around our 30s, we start to actually value ourselves, right?

And so we actually want something different.

You know, we start to have some non-negotiables.

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