I am a woman on a mission trying to help Christians get a much better understanding.

I am a woman on a mission trying to help Christians get a much better understanding of what God really meant sex to be.

Welcome to this week's edition of the To Love, Honor, and Vacuum Podcast, the place to come when you feel like marriage is too much of a

to-do list and you want it to be more of a passionate adventure and that's what

we're going to be talking about today because what can be more passionate than

wonderful biblical sex but you know what the way that we're often taught about sex

Actually takes away a lot of that passion and so what I want to launch into right now is how can we look at sex the way that God presents

sex in the Bible and how can we sort out how some of the ways that we talk about

sex in the Christian church actually really wreck women's libidos, they wreck the way that we think

about sex, they wreck the way that marriages relate in terms of sex, and really it takes away

from the joy that we're supposed to have on our sex life.

So let's get going and look at this.

And to do that, I want to share with you a story and I think I've shared this in another

podcast.

I certainly talk about it every time I speak in public, but it's important, okay?

So I'm 13 years old and I'm sitting in church on those pews surrounded by all my junior high

friends and the pastor opens up his Bible to Genesis chapter 4 and back then we didn't really have the new international version.

It was about a year before it came out so all of you can start doing the math as to how old I am.

And the pastor read the words in the King James version and

Adam knew his wife Eve and they conceived unto them a son. And of course all of my

friends and I started giggling because that was hilarious like

Adam knew his wife and we just figured that God was embarrassed of using the real

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