Should sex leave you breathless? That's what we're going to be talking about on today's addition to the To Love, Honor, and Vacuum Podcast. Sometimes it feels like marriage is just a huge

to-do list. You've got chores, you've got date nights, you've even got sex.

Well here at the Love Honor and Vacuum, we don't want marriage to be a to-do list.

We want to turn it into a passionate adventure.

This month for Valentine's Day month, both on the blog and in the podcast, I've been talking about how to make sex feel great.

And we've been doing some posts that are perhaps a little bit more graphic than usual.

I had one last week and how to find the G spot. I've got one this

week and I have multiple orgasms and I invite you to check out to love honor and

vacuum.com for some of those posts and today I want to elaborate on that a little bit should

we be looking for some of these things should sex actually be feeling great I

got a lot to say about that and I know for some of you orgasm feeling good has been a big problem

because you've just honestly never figured out what all the fuss is about and

we're going to be getting to that in a second but I want to back up and I want to

start with a mental block that I often hear for women, especially in Christian circles.

There was actually a comment left on the blog this week on an older post where a woman was saying,

look, there's no marriage in heaven so we know there's no

sex in heaven so why are you making such a big deal about sex here we should just

simply be yearning for God and forgetting about all this orgasm stuff.

And this is something that's very common that I've heard.

I was once speaking at a marriage conference and a husband came up to me and said that

his wife had told him after she gave birth to their last child that sex was over now

because there was no need for it anymore and he was just heartbroken and didn't know what to do about this.

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