Episode 714: Waiting for Sex Unapologetically
Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell
4.9 • 1.3K Ratings
🗓️ 27 April 2026
⏱️ 38 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Just Break Up, the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the relationship advice you don't want to hear. My name is Sierra the Mulder. And I'm Sam Blackwell. And today we're going to answer a letter from somebody who doesn't know how to tell the people she's dating that she wants to wait until marriage. But before we begin, we just want to give you our Surgeon General's warning, which is that Sierra and I are not licensed mental health practitioners. |
| 0:23.8 | That's right. Sam and I are not professionals. We are not trained in any of this. We're just |
| 0:28.1 | doing the best that we can without any degrees in any of this. So please take our advice. As you |
| 0:34.1 | see fit, we're only here to offer our humble, humble musings to hopefully shed some understanding and maybe some laughs about the incredibly rewarding but mostly confusing experience that is love all right pals it's monday so today we are going to do a quick check-in topic before we dive into the main letter. The check-in topic today is |
| 0:56.8 | lighthearted and silly. Some of Sam and I made up. And I'm excited because these are some of my |
| 1:02.7 | favorites because Sam always makes me laugh and surprises me. We're just going to sort of ask. |
| 1:09.4 | I was like Googling like relationship trends and an article showed me that |
| 1:15.0 | tattooed engagement rings are on the rise, right? And immediately I was like, Sam's going to hate |
| 1:21.0 | this. Absolutely I am. Yep. So we wrote a quick list of some things of like, would you do this? |
| 1:28.4 | It's not necessarily like, is this a red flag or is this a deal breaker for you, but vaguely like that. |
| 1:34.6 | Like how do you feel about this? |
| 1:36.0 | Would you do it with potentially polarizing topics around relationship and commitment? |
| 1:42.3 | So first one, Sam, how do you feel about slash would you ever get a tattooed wedding ring |
| 1:51.0 | or engagement band or something significant like that? |
| 1:54.1 | No, I would not. |
| 1:55.5 | Follow up question before you explain yourself. |
| 1:58.2 | Would you ever get matching tattoos with a romantic partner? |
| 2:03.2 | I... |
| 2:03.6 | Would you get a matching tattoo with me? |
| 2:05.7 | I would honestly get a matching tattoo with you before I would get a matching tattoo with |
| 2:08.6 | Peter, to be honest with you. |
| 2:10.5 | Oh my God. |
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