Episode 709: Is Toxic Sex Inherently Hotter and Easier?

Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.9 • 1.3K Ratings

🗓️ 15 April 2026

⏱️ 32 minutes

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0:00.0	Welcome to Just Break Up, the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the relationship advice you don't want to hear.
0:07.1	My name is Sierra DeMolder.
0:09.0	And I'm Sam Blackwell.
0:10.2	And today we're going to answer a letter from somebody whose sex with her toxic ex was more passionate than with her wonderful partner.
0:16.9	But before we begin, we just want to give you our Surgeon General's warning, which is that Sierra and I are not licensed mental health practitioners. Correct. We are not professionals. We are
0:26.6	not trained in any of this. So please take our advice as you see fit. We're only here to offer our
0:31.7	humble musings to hopefully shed some understanding and maybe some laughs about the incredibly
0:36.2	rewarding, but mostly confusing experience that is love.
0:40.5	All right.
0:40.9	Today's letter is coming to us from I'm hopefully bringing sexy back, whose pronouns are she her, who is writing us from Clitty City.
0:49.7	I did read that before.
0:51.4	That's very funny.
0:53.0	Clitty City, USA.
0:57.0	We are so dumb.
0:58.0	I love that.
1:00.6	Anyway, yes.
1:02.9	Okay, pronounce to her.
1:04.9	They write, or she writes,
1:07.0	Dear Sam and Sierra,
1:08.2	thank you for all the great work that y'all do.
1:10.5	Your advice has shed light on my darkest times and helps me find a way through.
1:14.1	Once again, I could really use your two cents.
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