Welcome to Just Break Up, the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the relationship advice you don't want to hear.

My name is Sierra de Mulder.

And I'm Sam Blackwell.

And today we're going to answer a letter from somebody who uninvited her friend to her wedding because he said no, because he doesn't think weddings are important.

Yeah.

And he's like a good friend.

Like this is classic, we are not. I'm so confused. Classic, we do not justify our own feelings example. Do you know what I mean? Like, oh, 100%. Yeah, absolutely. There's like, can't wait to validate this letter writer. Here we go. Anyway. I'd be like, this is confusing. This is not just confronting. This is confusing. Why is this person behaving this way? That's a callback to Monday's episode in case you all don't get it. Go listen to it. It was a good one. All right. But before we begin, we just want to give you our Surgeon General's warning, which is that Sierra and I are not licensed mental health practitioners.

Correct. We are not. We are not professionals. We are not trained in any of this. So please take

our advice as you see fit. We're only here to offer our humble musings. So we shed some understanding

and maybe some laughs. Maybe. Who fucking knows.

On the... We will certainly find ourselves funny.

So we've got that going for us.

On the incredibly rewarding but mostly confusing experience that is love.

That's right.

All right.

Today's letter is coming to us from Not a Bride Zilla, whose pronounce are She Her,

who is writing from The Empty Spot on my guest list.

I'm writing to you both because of a friendship breakup that I'm very intertwined with.

It starts with a lot of exciting changes in my life.

I, 26 Sheher, recently bought my my first house and I'm getting married.

One of my dear friends, Alex, 27, He Him, lives very close to my new address,

and my fiancé, Chad, 23, He Him, and I were excited to be so close to him.

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