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to learn more. Welcome to Just Break Up the podcast about love, heartbreak and all the relationship

advice you don't want to hear.

My name is Sierra DeMolder.

And I'm Sam Blackwell.

And today we're going to answer a letter from somebody who went on a date with someone cooler than her and maybe blew it.

But before we begin, we just want to give you our Surgeon General's hoarding, which is that Sierra and I are not licensed mental health practitioners. Yeah. Sorry, I don't know why that's so charming to me. Yeah. No, we are not professionals. We are not cool. So, like, I don't even know what we're doing answering this question. No one has ever been intimidated by me. That's absolutely not true.

I dated told me that they were intimidated with me and I was annoyed by it. I was like, stop it. Well, you're kind of cool and like a little withholding something I'm not. Like if you know the black cat, golden retriever dynamic? Yeah. Like you're the black cat. I'm the golden retriever. the golden retriever, absolutely. That's so true.

And that's why this relationship works.

100%. Yeah, because I'm obsessed with you and you knock things off my counter. Absolutely. I can do whatever I want. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Pick that out. Anyway, this is all to say. Sam and I are not professionals. We're comparing

ourselves to animals. So, like, I don't know why you are here for advice, but if you are,

please take it as you see fit. We're only here to offer our humble musings. So if we've

said some understanding and maybe some laughs about the incredibly rewarding, but mostly

confusing experience that is love. All right. So today's letter is coming to us from

Anon, Anon, whose pronouns are she, her, who is writing to us from cringing into a black hole.

Hi, Sam and Sierra. I just got out of a long-term relationship almost a year ago now with someone

who is a wonderful person but was just

not right for me. I broke up with him because I felt that he was very complacent, never really

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