Hey guys, my name is John Kim. I'm a licensed therapist and life coach putting

self betterment into a shot class because let's face it who's got that much time

these days. I come unpolished, unrehearsed, on purpose.

If you're looking for more of a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place.

Also I want to mention some big news. Journey is now affiliated with

Wonder Lust. We're the only life coaching company to partner with them and myself

Noel and many of our catalyst Life Coaches will beanda Lestratton, which is in Vermont from June 21st through the 24th.

If you want to join us, you can get 10% off tickets using the code JRNI 2018 go to wanderlust.com and look for

Stratton I hope see you there. Although this episode is titled from

mouth to nipple I'm sorry this is not going to be about sex.

Maybe I will have an episode about sex, but today's episode is about relationship dynamics. I'm actually going to pull from my story but

this is a common thing or a common topic or a common it's just something that I see in so many relationships helping

you know just over the years I've done thousands of sessions with couples a ton of

sessions with men and this is a common dynamic that happens.

So I think many can relate.

What I mean by mouth to nipple is when the relationship dynamic changes so for example

Let's use my story okay so when I was, when I found my ex-wife at the time when we were together,

we were both kids. I was in my 20s, you know, she was, I was in my mid-20 20s she was in her early 20s and I was running a

restaurant bar club and I was you know hustling and I was leading and I was ambitious and I was passionate and I was making things happen and you know I was had positive energy.

There was good things happening in my life right and I think

some of the attraction she had to me was that you know that that person who was

able to get up and and run a team and you know pull from his passion and at the same time I was also

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