Hey guys, my name is John Kim. I'm a licensed therapist and life coach putting

self betterment into a shot class because let's face it who's got that much time

these days. I come unpolished, unrehearsed, on purpose.

If you're looking for more of a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place.

Also I want to mention some big news. Journey is now affiliated with

Wanderlust. We're the only life coaching company to partner with them and myself

Noel and many of our catalyst life coaches will be at Wanda Lestratton, which is in Vermont, from June 21st through the 24th.

If you want to join us, you can get 10% off tickets using the code JRNI 2018 go to wanderlust.com and look for

Stratton I hope to see you there. I used to think that love was a light switch. Something flicks on, we get an overwhelming sensation, right? We hear angels, feel the lightning bolt, it hits us like a bag of bricks, or maybe a strong arrow and we know and when we know we know right not so

much after 44 years in an expired marriage I don't see love that way anymore

I've placed Cupid right next to Santa Claus on the Easter Bunny.

Let me have a sip of coffee before I continue.

Love, guys, is a series of choices, daily choices.

The first choice is based on many factors including chemistry and principle, logic, humor,

banter, intelligence, body type, you know, whatever it is that is important to you that will make you gravitate towards someone else.

Also including where we're at in our lives. that will make you gravitate towards someone else.

Also including where we're at in our lives, what we want,

what we feel we deserve, what we need.

And the list goes on and on,

and the weight of each factor varies depending on individual. Now based on these factors we either choose

to begin the process to love or we don't and if we decide to enter this process

the action of loving can bring quote-unquote light switch moments.

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