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Help Me Be Me

Episode 59: Ex-Obsessed: Emotionally Devastated and Driving Yourself Insane

Help Me Be Me

Cloud10

Health & Fitness

4.81.9K Ratings

🗓️ 4 August 2015

⏱️ 35 minutes

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Summary

For when you’re in the break-up zone that causes you to obsess over the person you just broke up with. This is for anyone who has just been broken up with or broken up with a person that they felt they loved – and now you’re obsessing and even Facebook stalking this person. Maybe you know this is not helpful but you can’t stop wanting to know what they’re doing, who they’re with, who they’re seeing now and what that person looks like. And that is hurting you even more! But it’s an obsession and you can’t stop. Firstly – I am so sorry you’re here! This time will end. You are in the hardest part right now – and the more you can do to be self-loving and be nice to yourself, the faster this will end. I’ve been here myself and it blows. But you can half the time you suffer if you do everything in your power to do what you know is best for yourself. And that includes some healthy tough love when it comes to policing yourself and what you allow your focus to rest on. This kind of a break up is way worse because it’s hitting you on multiple fronts – in other words, this is not just about the loss of love. With all break-ups, time is the greatest healer – but in addition to that, I want to empower you with some insight into your “why” so that you can begin to separate from the process you’re victim to, currently: the obsessing and salting the wound. So you can see the difference between the kinds of suffering: and see what is NOT truly coming from love. As usual there are three parts. The what the why and the how – the tools. This is for Chelsea. I heart you girl! Hang in there. X Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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and geographical restrictions apply. You're not going to. Hi friends it's Sarah May and this is an episode for Chelsea. I hope this helps hang in there and it's about being X obsessed So being basically devastated in the post-breakup stage and basically driving yourself crazy by

1:10.5

internet stocking this person or just obsessing about them and what they're doing

1:16.0

with their life and who they're with etc. So this is for anybody who has just

1:21.0

been broken up with or maybe they broke up with the person

1:24.0

that they felt like they loved,

1:25.6

and now they're just, unbeknownst to them,

1:29.8

stuck in that state of obsession.

1:33.0

So maybe you know that this is not helpful,

1:34.8

but you can't stop wanting to know what they're doing,

1:37.2

who they're with, who they're seeing now,

1:39.2

what that person looks like,

1:40.7

and that is hurting you even more. But it's an obsession you just can't seem to stop.

1:47.3

Firstly I am so sorry you're here because this is extremely painful and I want you to know that this time

1:56.9

will be short-lived and it will end. You're in the hardest part right now and the more you can do to be self-loving and be nice to yourself

2:06.8

and be healthy the faster you will move through this

2:10.9

I've been here myself and it blows. But you can half the time that you

2:16.2

suffer if you do everything in your power to do what you know is best for

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