Episode 541: Nicole Herway, Domestic Violence Survivor and Therapist

Listen, Learn & Love Hosted by Richard Ostler

Richard Ostler

Religion & Spirituality

4.8 • 839 Ratings

🗓️ 7 July 2022

⏱️ 65 minutes

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Summary

My friend Nicole Herway (LCSW, Mother of Two, Divorced Survivor of Intimate Partner Abuse, Active LDS) bravely shares her own story to help others. She is not doing this to speak poorly of her former spouse, but to increase knowledge and awareness of abusive patterns and debunk myths. In the podcast Nicole debunks 8 myths using her own story, academic knowledge, and front-line clinical experience. If you feel you might be in an abusive relationship, please listen to this podcast. It will help you. If you suspect someone you love is in an abuse relationship, please listen to this podcast. And if you are a local church leader, please listen as it will give you better tools to help others. Thank you, Nicole, for being on the podcast. I learned so much. I encourage everyone to listen to this powerful episode. Links mentioned in the podcast: Nicole’s web site: https://www.herwaycounseling.com/ Power and Control Wheel and Equality Wheel: https://www.theduluthmodel.org/wheel-gallery/ Sister Aileen H. Clyde Quote (starting with “If charity is not ….): https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/ensign/1991/11/charity-suffereth-long Elder Kearon April 2022: https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2022/04/24kearon Elder Hollard April 2021: https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2021/04/23holland ** Please Check Out My New Book (Improving Latter-day Saint Culture; link below)** Deseret Book: https://deseretbook.com/p/listen-learn-love Amazon: amazon.com/dp/1462139566

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0:00.0	Welcome listeners to another episode of Listen, Learn, and Love hosted by Richard Osler.
0:08.4	My guest on today's podcast is my friend Nicole Hurway.
0:13.4	Welcome to the podcast, Nicole.
0:14.6	Thank you.
0:15.6	We're going to talk about domestic violence and divorce.
0:19.8	This is the podcast we talk about difficult topics, so we better understand.
0:26.1	Nicole is going to talk about her marriage that ended and being a survivor of domestic violence.
0:33.0	And obviously divorce, she's a mother of two active LDS and is a licensed clinical social worker.
0:42.7	But the goal of this podcast is to reach those of you that might be in the middle of a very difficult relationship and wondering if it is a difficult relationship or if it's just your fault.
0:55.4	And I'm wondering if it is not your fault.
0:58.3	How do I address this?
0:59.9	Is it right to leave the relationship?
1:02.4	The podcast might also be helpful for you, family and friends that are aware of somebody you love
1:07.9	that you think is in an abusive or difficult relationship and wondering
1:12.1	what are the signs of that and should I get involved? And it's possible if you are actually
1:17.8	the abuser that this podcast will help you look inward and see the things you need to do to
1:25.9	change the situation. Is that okay for an introduction?
1:29.3	Yes, that's true.
1:30.7	Let me tell you a little bit more about Nicole.
1:32.9	She grew up in Europe, a family that was there serving our government,
1:39.6	eventually made her way to BYU where she has a degree in recreational therapy and then went on to the University of Utah, has a master's in social work.
1:51.7	And as I mentioned, is a clinical licensed social worker.
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