Welcome to the to love honor and vacuum podcast. I'm Sheila Gregoire and I blog every day at to love honor and vacuum.com I am the author of the Good Girls Guide to Great Sex,

and 31 Days to Great Sex will be coming out

with Zondervin this summer as well.

And I have some awesome sexy dares on my site.

So we are all about sex.

And right now, hey, we're almost at Valentine's Day tomorrow is

Valentine's Day and ladies I hope that you have made an effort to make this

romantic for your husband often on Valentine's Day I think we women are so quick to expect

that he will romance us but how about you romance him for a change and let him

know that you love him and that you're glad you're married to him and that you want him and all of that

that's super important and as I was trying to figure out what I wanted to talk about on this

podcast I I thought hey his Valentine's Day we can talk about how to get spicy or how to make

sex feel great but you know I have done a lot of that back in 2019 on the blog talked a lot

about how to spice things up how to make make sex feel great. We did we did post on

multiple orgasms. We did post on g-spots like theology of the clitter is all that

great stuff and I will put links to some of those in the podcast description, the podcast post that goes along with this

podcast.

And so I thought, you know, I don't really want to reiterate that. I want to take a slightly

different take on this, which is when there's something like Valentine's Day coming up a lot of women get kind of like

Man seriously like we just get discouraged about it because it's like now I have to perform or now I just I I feel

inadequate and now this is even more making me feel inadequate and it can just

be hard to get excited about it.

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