Welcome to just break up the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the

relationship advice you don't want to hear. My name is Sierra de

Moulter and I'm Sam Blackwell and today we're going to answer a letter from somebody who is

feeling possessive about her friendships. But before we begin we just want to give you

our Surgeon General's warning which is that Sierra and I are not licensed

mental health practitioners. No and I are not licensed mental health practitioners.

No, and we are not like professional friends.

You know, like we don't know how to do this professionally.

I mean, we are friends professionally because like our friendship is the thing that we make money off of.

I thought it was our bleeding heart center wit.

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Yeah. Anyway um Yes, those two. Yep.

Yeah.

Anyway, Sam and I are not professionals.

We are not trained in human relationships in any way whatsoever.

So please take our advice as you see fit in your life.

We're only here to offer our humble museums to hopefully shed some understanding and maybe

some laughs about the incredibly rewarding but mostly confusing experience.

That is love.

All right, let's, yes, let's get into today's letter, which comes from

Greedy Goblin whose pronouns are she they aa ais and who is writing from friend Horderville

Hi Sam and Sierra I'm a 28-year-old queer woman of color in a long-term heterosexual relationship with Scott, he, him.

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