Welcome to just break up the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the relationship

advice you don't want to hear.

My name is Sierra Moldtor.

And I'm Sam Blackwell.

And today we're going to answer a letter from somebody who has a crush on her maybe straight friend.

It's unclear what this person is into and what they would like to do.

So we're not the ones to define it. No it no absolutely we don't get to decide we just we just get to live with it

but before we begin we just want to give you our surgeon general's

warning which is that Sierra and I are not licensed mental health practitioners.

No, we're not we're not professionals, we are not trained in any of this, so please take

our advice as you see fit. We're only here to offer our humble museums to hopefully shed some understanding and maybe some laughs about the incredibly

rewarding but mostly confusing especially in this context in this letter today.

The mostly confusing experience that is love.

Absolutely.

All right, let's get into today's letter.

So today's letter comes from Billy Eilish kissing Charlie XXX,

whose pronouns are she, Her, who is writing from

underwater and under Samantha. Hello, Sam and Sierra. I am writing to see

through the layers of societal bullshit at play here and to get a better perspective than I currently have.

I, she, her, very anxiously attached, am so incredibly in love with one of my closest friends

and college swim teammates. She, her definitely avoidant. We'll call her Samantha.

We occupy pretty similar spots on the roster, have done supplemental training together and spend time

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