Welcome to Just Break Up, the podcast about love,

heartbreak, and all the relationship advice

you don't want to hear.

My name is Sierra de Mulder.

And I'm Sam Blackwell.

And today we're going to answer a letter from somebody

who loves to give but hates to receive during sex.

But before we begin we just want to give you our Surgeon General's warning which is that

Sierra and I are not licensed mental health practitioners.

No we are not professionals we are not trained in this nor are we sex therapists in any means of

that word. Or like medical doctors either like let's name that. Yeah, yeah.

And we're not like, yeah, we're just not trained.

These are just our opinions.

We just like, we got your letter, we read it, we're going to respond to it.

That's it.

Yeah, absolutely. You asked for's it you asked for this you

asked for this when you sent us this letter this is all to say please take our

advice as you see fit we're only here to offer our humble musing stuff, so hopefully she had some understanding

and maybe some laughs about the incredibly rewarding

but mostly confusing experience that is love and sex.

All right, diving into today's letter. It is from rock-bottom stone top, superb title. Excellent choice.

Whose pronouns are She Her, who is writing to us from the hill my body apparently wants to die on.

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