Welcome to just break up the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the

relationship advice you don't want to hear. My name is Sierra de Mulder.

And I'm Sam Blackwell. And today we're going to answer a letter from somebody who is

concerned about how much money her partner makes. But before we begin we just

want to give you our Surgeon General's warning which is that Sierra and I are

not licensed to mental health practitioners.

No, we're not professionals, we are not trained in any of this, so please take our advice as you see fit.

We're only here to share a humble musings, so hopefully she had some understanding and maybe some laughs on the

incredibly rewarding but mostly confusing experience that is love.

All right let's get into today's letter. Today's letter comes from a true ahole

whose pronouns are she her who is writing from the

depths of capitalism.

First, thank you so much for your podcast.

You've offered so much guidance and fun to my life over the past year. It's hard for me to write this

question because I feel ashamed of myself. I'm beginning, I'm thinking of breaking up over money.

About a year ago I met a wonderful man. He's kind, intelligent, super hot, fun, and he makes

me feel like a goddess. We talk so openly about everything, including our relationship

needs and hang-ups. In short, this is the best relationship

I've ever had in my 46 years around the sun.

But recently, a fly has come into the ointment

and it is the one thing I have a very hard time

talking to him about.

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