Welcome to Just Break Up, the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the relationship

advice you don't want to hear.

My name is Sierra de Moller.

And I'm Sam Blackwell.

And today we're going to answer a letter from

somebody who wants her friends to go from couple to Thruple with her. I had two... I don't know why I'm

like five years old and that makes me laugh. I had two written out and one was more serious and I chose to go with the chaotic one because

that's just the season that we're in today.

Yes, there we go.

Oh my God, that is, that leads us so well into today's checking topic, but first.

I just want to give you our Surgeon General's warning, which is that Sierra and I are not licensed

mental health practitioners.

No, we're not, we're not professionals, we're not trained in this and we have the sense of humor of and we have the emotional maturity of 12 year olds apparently.

So please take our advice as you see fit.

We're only here to offer our humble musings

so hopefully shed some understanding

and maybe some laughs about the incredibly rewarding

but mostly confusing experience that is love.

All right, so today's second topic, Sam hinted at it a little bit.

It's just sort of like an icebreaker question that I stole from a T.A. that I hire for my online

poetry classes. Tristan always asks our students at the very beginning of our class, like, what is, what season of life are you in right now?

And you have to say one or one or two words to describe the season of life you're in.

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