Welcome to sex chat for Christian wives.

We're four marriage and sex bloggers discuss the naked truth.

What does God really want for the sexual intimacy in our marriage?

I'm Jay Parker of Hot Holy and Humorous.

I'm Chris Taylor from The Forgiven Wife.

I'm Gay Christmas of Calm, Healthy, Sexy.

I'm Bonnie Burns of Oyster Bed 7. This is Chris at Sex Chat for Christian Wives.

In one of our episodes about lies women believe, we talked about the idea that many women feel that they somehow are not enough sexually or physically.

And we mentioned that pornography sometimes

contributes to this feeling. Pornography use affects so many marriages, and that includes

Christian marriages. And although pornography use is a problem for both men and women, what we're

going to do for several episodes is focus on a situation that we know many of our

listeners can relate to, a wife who is dealing with her husband's pornography use.

We realize that this is a difficult and emotional subject for many of you, and it isn't easy

for us either. So we're going to slow the conversation down a bit, and we will spread this over three episodes.

Our own Bonnie Burns has faced this problem in her own marriage, and she's written about it on her blog.

Our show notes will include links to some of her posts.

She's going to share her heart and her story with us.

Bonnie thought it might be a little bit easier for her to do this one-on-one,

so at first you're going to hear just the two of us talking,

just like you might chat with a trusted friend of your own

when you face a difficulty in your own marriage. Bonnie had a lot to say about

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