A Conversation About Porn (Part 2)
Sex Chat for Christian Wives
Chris Taylor
4.7 • 885 Ratings
🗓️ 31 July 2018
⏱️ 23 minutes
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Summary
Pornography affects so many marriages--even Christian marriages. Although porn can be a problem for both men and women, we're going to spend some time looking at a situation we know many of our listeners can relate to.
Join us for the second of three episodes about a wife dealing with her husband's pornography use. In this episode, Bonny offers advice to other wives based on her own experience.
You can find show notes for this episode at http://forchristianwives.com/episode-39-a-conversation-about-porn-part-2.
For the first part of the conversation, click here: http://forchristianwives.com/episode-38-a-conversation-about-porn-part-1/.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to sex chat for Christian wives. |
| 0:12.0 | We're four marriage and sex bloggers discuss the naked truth. |
| 0:16.0 | What does God really want for the sexual intimacy in our marriage? |
| 0:20.0 | I'm Jay Parker of Hot Holy and Humorous. |
| 0:22.7 | I'm Chris Taylor from The Forgiven Wife. |
| 0:24.9 | I'm Gay Christmas of Calm, Healthy, Sexy. |
| 0:27.7 | I'm Bonnie Burns of Oyster Bed 7. Hi, this is Chris for sex chat for Christian wives. |
| 0:45.0 | Thanks for joining us for part two of a conversation with our own Bonnie about a husband's pornography use. |
| 0:51.3 | If you would like to listen to part one of the conversation, you can find the link in our show notes and then come back and listen to this. |
| 0:58.8 | Otherwise, just hang on and let's hear from Bonnie. |
| 1:04.1 | You know, you said that you made an effort to not add any more shame, but he had to be feeling some just on his own anyway, I would think. |
| 1:14.1 | Yeah, it was terribly shameful. |
| 1:16.6 | And so when you feel bad about things, you get defensive. |
| 1:20.5 | So I think a lot of our guys get really defensive. |
| 1:23.5 | And it's just from a place of humiliation, from shame. |
| 1:29.0 | The defensive posture is just trying to defend themselves. |
| 1:33.1 | You said you allowed yourself to grieve. |
| 1:35.3 | Anything else that you found really helped heal? |
| 1:38.3 | Well, what would have, I think what would have really helped is if I had had one girlfriend that I had known had walked through |
| 1:46.0 | this. I didn't have anybody. No one I knew on a personal level had ever dealt with this as a wife. |
| 1:54.5 | And I, you know, I limped along. I tried to talk to people, but again, there was that judgment. |
| 1:59.6 | There was condemnation. |
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