Still, like, there's just a heaviness that weighs on me sometimes about like,

oh man, what are people going to think about us and like, how much do I have to explain?

And what kind of judgments are going to come up? Like, it's just, it's hard. It feels heavy sometimes.

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You're not married. Why oh, you are not as on all caps here.

You're not married. You don't burden children. I get it. Get married for tax benefits,

but don't say you're married when you don't burden children. That's the death and point of being

married. Ha ha. Y'all sound stupid. S-T-U-P-I-E-D. Interesting.

So this is the kind of comment that we get when we talk about the fact that we are in a child-free

marriage. I just have to laugh at this person calling us stupid when they could not even spell

stupid correctly. Also, burden children? I mean, we are child-free, so we are definitely not

burdening any of our children that we don't have. I assume they mean birth children, bear children.

I think bear, but burden. Also, they did it twice. The capitalization is wild here. Random

words, capitalized, random words in all caps. I also like that's the death period. They didn't

want to write definition out. They just wrote that's the death. There's no apostrophies anywhere.

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