There's a big difference between honesty and cruelty.

Yeah, you're just being cruel.

Yeah, yes, honesty is important.

Yes, we encourage you to be honest with your partner.

But there are plenty of things that you

don't have to be honest about.

And this is just such a great example of that.

Hello and welcome to the Pillotox podcast.

We're your host, Vanessa.

And Zander Marin.

I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience.

And I'm just a regular dude.

We share the ups and downs in our relationship

while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours.

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Today, we are talking about the gray areas in relationships.

So we've all heard about deal breakers, right?

Like the very obvious.

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