Hey guys, my name is John Kim. I'm a licensed therapist and life coach putting

self betterment into a shot class because let's face it who's got that much time

these days. I come unpolished, unrehearsed, on purpose.

If you're looking for more of a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place.

Dear Future Self, Number One, quit chasing.

There's a difference between pursuing your goals and being in a constant state of chase.

You've been doing this for the most for most of your life and

it causes nothing but anxiety and security. You know this, stop fighting or forcing the

current. Instead let it take you you things will happen when they're meant to do the best you can each

day and be okay with it knowing that as long as you're moving forward and standing on

your truth your path will unfold.

Man, I have been chasing for most of my life and the thing about chasing is it really makes you powerless because you are willing to exchange

Your truth from membership or you're willing to exchange what is honest to you for this thing that

you're going after, right?

And I think that that process makes you hollow, it creates anxiety, and if you don't get what you're chasing, then you are

falling off this, you know, this cliff that you've created for yourself.

So chasing is always a it's a trap

I always tell people instead of chasing start attracting and I think that is a inside out process so when you're

chasing your living life outside in so right things outside of yourself is what's what you're giving power to

Hence making you powerless when you are attracting your living inside out

pulling from your truth doing things that are honest to you, living life in a way that

lines up with who you are and your story, and by doing so you're attracting the people that you're meant you know the people that you're meant to the opportunities

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