Hey guys, my name is John Kim. I'm a licensed therapist and life coach putting

self betterment into a shot class because let's face it who's got that much time

these days. I come unpolished, unrehearsed, on purpose.

If you're looking for more of a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place.

I'm afraid to tell you this because I don't want to lose you in the first five seconds,

but I'm going to do it anyway.

How many therapists does it take to change the light bulb?

One but only if the light bulb wants to change?

All right guys, if you are still here with me,

we're going to talk about relationships. Gary V. Gary Vainer Chuck, and if you

follow him, he's like a business guy, tech guy, speaker, etc. And he talks about the business

right,

and that's all that matters meaning clouds and dirt when it comes to business right and that's all that matters

meaning clouds being the big picture the macro you know where you see your business you know in 10 years it's

the North Star the dirt is the day-to-day the the meetings the you know so if you were to take my life my cloud would be

changing the way we change right my cloud would be changing the temperature of self

help my cloud would be the temperature of self-help. My cloud would be the passion I have to create a dialogue

and challenge men, right? So like the big themes

What I believe is my purpose right where I the direction that I want to go whether it's a my company or myself or you know all that the dirt in my life is actually getting up every morning and

working on a book or doing a Facebook live or posting on Instagram, right?

The grit, the 5 a.m.

the, I just smashed a bunch of potato chips into my face trying to explain that that's what it feels like to be a writer

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