Hey guys, my name is John Kim. I'm a licensed therapist and life coach putting

self betterment into a shot class because let's face it who's got that much time

these days. I come unpolished, unrehearsed, on purpose.

If you're looking for more of a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place.

Obviously, literally, don't show people pictures of your penis, but I think the more

interesting conversation to have is figuratively showing people parts of

yourself that they don't necessarily want to see, you know?

But kind of going back to the literal sense, I can't imagine any circumstances

where anyone would want to see your penis. I mean other than like

some kind of trick or like just to just to see if they can get you to do that.

Or maybe if you're gay and you, that's like a hot thing for you.

I could kind of see that maybe, but like I don't know any female who's heterosexual that just you know gets turned on by a

picture of a of a penis I I think generally speaking they're more interested in what the penis is attached to, who

the penis is attached to and the person as a whole.

I think it's very different men and women and of course men are more visual creatures

But it's just I just something I just don't understand why men do that. But anyway, figuratively, we all do it. You don't have to have a penis to show someone a part of you that they don't necessarily want to see and that's kind of what I'm interested in talking about.

And so how do you know that? Because I do that often and I do it because I think I've just been programmed to being a blogger and doing videos and

front loading my story and really kind of pulling the curtain back and showing myself since I started doing that almost a decade ago.

That's just how I am now, you know, and so what's interesting is, you know, how you think and how you behave it doesn't matter what you know if it's online or offline it kind of ripples to everything so

sometimes when I'm with

friends or if I'm if I have a new friend I'm sure they don't want to know my story they don't want to know parts of my myself that I

Disclose you know

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