Welcome to the Bear Marriage podcast. I'm Sheila Ray Gregor from Bear Marriage.com

where we like to talk about healthy evidence-based biblical advice for your sex life and your

marriage. And I am joined in the studio, which is really our guest room by my daughter,

Rebecca Lindenbach. Hi there. And one of the things we've done, Becca, over the last few years,

is we have taken a look at some of the Christian marriage resources that are out there and we've

analyzed them. Yeah, that is, that is a good way of summarizing what we've done. So when we

wrote a book, The Great Sex Rescue in 2021, we looked at the 15 bestselling

sex and marriage books and analyzed them, put them through a healthy sexuality rubric,

took a lot of quotes out of them, just to see, like, if they're containing healthy or unhealthy

information.

Exactly.

And since then, we've analyzed a bunch of other books.

We kind of have this list where we work down, we look at Christian Marriage books

that people recommend, and we also just simply look at the most popular ones.

And we work down the list based on Amazon ranking.

So we're trying to do the most popular ones first.

We're trying to make it objective so that people can't ever accuse us of just picking

on specific people because, no, we're just going after the ones that are the most popular first.

Right. And today we want to look at the book, His and Needs, Her Needs. We did look at it for our book

The Great Sex Rescue, but we've never done it. We've never done a one sheet on it before. And so today I'm going to bring on some guests who are going to help me.

So you're going to go away for a minute and come back at the end.

And we're going to look at it.

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