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Bare Marriage

Episode 283: When the Church Stole Your Sex Life

Bare Marriage

Sheila Gregoire

Marriage, Social Sciences, Science, Relationships, Sex, Christianity, Wife, Religion & Spirituality, Mother, Society & Culture, Advice, Family

4.61.1K Ratings

🗓️ 15 May 2025

⏱️ 74 minutes

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Send us a text What happens when church doesn’t seem safe? Or when, in retrospect, you realize it wasn’t, even if you threw yourself into it at the time? Today Dr. Andrew Bauman joins us to talk about his new book Safe Church, and then Rebecca and Sheila read reader’s stories about how the church stole their sex lives—and what we can do about it. TO SUPPORT US: Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our workFor tax deductible donations in the U.S., support G...

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What happens if the church steals your sex life and the church isn't necessarily a safe place for you?

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That's what we're going to be talking about today on the bear marriage podcast.

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I'm Sheila Ray Gregor from bearmarriage.com where we like to talk about healthy,

0:24.2

evidence-based biblical advice for your sex life and your marriage. And I am joined today by my

0:29.5

daughter Rebecca Lindenbach. Hello. And we're going to be joined by Dr. Andrew Bowman in a minute

0:33.3

for an interview. But before we get to Andrew, Becca, let's talk about our Patreon. Yes, thank you,

0:40.6

Patrions. Patrons. So the website's called Patreon, but the people who give money are called

0:47.4

patrons. Are they? I never know what to say. And we are never able to get this right.

0:51.2

No, we really aren't. Thank you patrons of our Patreon. So if you,

0:55.3

if you like what we do, if you appreciate how we're trying to change the conversation about

0:59.4

sex and marriage in the evangelical church, you can join us and support us by going to

1:03.5

patreon.com slash bear marriage. And even if you give us little as $5 a month, it can help,

1:08.9

help fund our research and you get to join our exclusive Facebook

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group. And if you want to give more money, you can also get tax deductible receipts within the

1:15.9

United States as part of the Good Fruit Faith initiative of the Bosco Foundation. And the links

1:20.7

to those are in the podcast notes. Also remember to subscribe to this podcast, wherever you

1:25.2

watch it on YouTube or listen to it on any of your podcast

1:27.9

apps rate at five stars if you can and it just helps other people find us. Now, Becca, I'm going to

1:33.7

be having you back after our interview with Andrew because I asked on social media yesterday for

1:40.8

people to share their stories of if they feel like the church has stolen

1:44.6

their sex life. And I just got so many responses. I didn't even know what to do about it.

1:49.4

And so I thought we could just read through some of them. And I'll see what you think.

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