Hi and welcome to the To Love honor and vacuum podcast I'm Sheila

Ray Greigware from the to love honor and vacuum blog where we like talking about

how to make marriage into a passionate adventure and I'm here with my daughter

Rebecca hello and we are going to talk about something which there is no and I'm here with my daughter Rebecca. Hello.

And we are going to talk about something which there is no way to do this without getting a lot of flack.

No, there's no way.

And I'm honestly not trying to hurt anyone's feelings, but I want to have a really serious conversation today

about how parents are approaching, talking to their kids about the expectations around dating in marriage.

Because I've seen some things that really worry me and there's an increasing trend,

especially of Christian women who aren't getting married, and I'm just worried

that some parents are setting their kids up for big disappointment later without realizing

it.

Exactly, and we want to obviously clarify that when we're saying

Christian women who aren't getting married,

we aren't talking about women who say,

I don't want to get married and then don't get married.

Right.

We're saying women who really, really want to get married.

But then they find themselves you know in their late

30s and they're they're having a really hard time finding someone and they just

they're still unmarried and it's just really difficult like because we really feel

for them we get comments from them all the time yeah and I I firmly believe that

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