Welcome to the Bear Marriage Podcast, I'm Sheila Ray Gregor from Bear Marriage.com when we like to talk about

healthy evidence-based biblical advice for your parenting and your marriage and

your sex life and I am joined today by my daughter Rebecca

Linda and we are celebrating what are we celebrating Rebecca?

We're celebrating a year of She Deserves Better.

It's the birthday.

Yes.

So we wrote, our book She Deserves Better, it's based on a survey of 7,000 predominantly

evangelical women. I think 7400 or something. Tell us why it's 7400.

You know, we did, we used Survey Monkey for our surveys, right? So we did GSR, the Grace Text Rescue, we got the unlimited package. We're like you just get unlimited amount of questions, the respondents unlimited everything. We did that got like 22,000 respondents crash survey monkey like crashed them big time they had to go they had to use an

FTP protocol to go into their back servers to get us our data. Yeah, we couldn't even download it.

No so anyway so then we went to do our next one. There's no unlimited option anymore.

So make caps you at 7500. Well, you have to start paying where money.

So you get like you pay a flat rate up to the first 7500 and then you have to pay per respondent after that

and we were cheap and we were like you know what like Joanna ran all of the the statistical models to figure how many participants we need for the power that we need and

to like 7500 is like triple what we need.

So the minute we got to 7,000, we shut her down,

because we did not want to pay anything more.

So we broke survey monkey.

We're sorry about that if you are researchers trying to survey my kids

Yeah, it's probably our fault because you can't do it limited.

But you know, after you're a great Sex Rescue, so many people were saying,

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