Happy holidays.

Holligays.

It is, it's the end of the year, y'all, in case you were unaware.

And we are doing our annual mailbag episode where y'all just, you send us questions and really we got like lovely comments and things like that.

We did.

Yes.

You sent us your queer queries and then we do our best to answer them and we got some really great ones

everything like we got a bunch of stuff this year y'all thank you thank you thank you we were

really really grateful and it's like just to give you a little preview going into this is everything

from like you know advice surrounding how to find community to like mine and Lauren's

personal sex lives and history to, you know, I have a, God, it's going to have to be a

double episode of her talking about my sexual history because I fuck.

And perfect transition to, and questions about the workplace.

We also got to say.

We really, like this is actually a very, very fun, like plethora of questions.

And so we're just going to dive right in, and as always uh Nicole and I are just two two queer two queer chicks talking speaking from our own experiences we are not experts

in I dare say any field um so take our suggestions with a grain of

queer salt but you know go your gut your instincts you know yourself better than

we do so if we ever say something where you're like whoa that sounds wildly

wrong but I'll try it

anyway. Don't, don't, don't. You know, we're just giving our best, our best advice from the goodness

of our hearts and souls. Thank you, Lauren. Could not have said it better.

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