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freshest streaming service. Welcome to Just Break Up, the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the relationship

advice you don't want to hear.

My name is Sierra de Mulder.

And I'm Sam Blackwell, and this week we're going to tackle topics like the myth of the perfect breakup

Feeling like it's either or and trying to break patterns with old flames but before we begin we just want to give you our Surgeon

General's warning which is that Sierra and I are not licensed mental health

practitioners. We don't have any degrees or training in relationship therapy, but we do have lots of experience giving people advice.

So, which would you prefer?

At this point, we are four and a half years in.

So we are like unprofessional professionals at this point.

Yeah, we like added it up and I think, I think we've read over 6,000 letters and we've answered like received and read over 6,000 letters.

Yes, and maybe answered a thousand. Yeah. Wild. Yeah. That's wild y'all. Anyway so we are not

trained in this we are not professionals you know in that sort of a

accredited way so please take our advice as you see fit. We are only here to offer

our humble museums to hopefully shed some understanding and maybe some laughs on the incredibly

rewarding but mostly confusing experience that is love.

For this week's checking topic, we're just going to do some administrative housekeeping stuff.

We've been doing these really fun, what we call just break up office hours,

where we zoom with our patrons who support us at $10 a month or at an annual subscription of any level and those zooms just look like me and

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