Hey guys, my name is John Kim. I'm a licensed therapist and life coach putting

self betterment into a shot class because let's face it who's got that much time

these days. I come unpolished, unrehearsed, on purpose.

If you're looking for more of a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place.

It's 250 on a Tuesday afternoon and I just texted my brother, I love you.

Let me tell you a little bit about our relationship.

So that behavior of texting him, I love you at the blue, is not common.

It's a little bit strange.

So, um... not common, it's a little bit strange.

So, I mean, we're close because we choose to love each other,

but we're not that close in the sense

that we're very different people. He was, he's two years older than me, so we kind of grew up with different crews. And, you know, two years is not a big gap when you're an adult of course but when

your kids you know it's the difference between you know it's the difference between you know

it's two grades so it's a difference between a scrub and a senior or someone that's you

know someone that does not want to hang out with his little brother so so we had

our own bachelor of friends. We really weren't that close. Never really

had any deep conversations. We just, you know, we're just brothers, right?

But it's more like by blood.

And, um, and then life happens, meaning he, so he went left,

because he's very logical.

So he went picket fence. He got married early. He's got two beautiful kids, wife, that whole thing. And he got busy very fast. So he had corporate jobs, security, and of course when you have children, you know,

that everything changes. So then his life is about soccer games and all that stuff and it's great you know I went the other way I went

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