So rather than finding out exactly what's going on with him or between you, you make assumptions.

You have to make assumptions because you don't have any other data to pull from.

So you know, you think about things.

Is it because he's actually asexual and doesn't want to tell me is it because he's unsure about

his own sexuality has he had trauma that he hasn't worked through yet and feels

closed off is he super scared about something happening the first time

whatever who knows and it's not important to go down all those rabbit

holes because you don't know. And when you don't talk about it, that's what you're left with.

You all you can do is make assumptions.

Hey everybody, before we start the show, I want to make a couple disclaimers.

This show does cover a wide variety of topics related to mental health and life in general and

some of those could be sensitive for you.

I want to simultaneously encourage you to be brave in

consuming difficult content but also respect and recognize your

limitations. So please use your best judgment. I will never be offended if you need to

skip a question or an episode entirely but feel

free to feel it out check out the episode and just see what happens if you need to skip

that's okay but you know feel free to give it a shot first I also need to say

that while I am a psychologist I'm not your

psychologist and I'm not your therapist. This is not intended to be direct

medical advice and you should not use this as a substitute for professional help.

So with those said let's go ahead and get into the show. All right. All right. All right.

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