Welcome to the Bear Marriage Podcast. I'm Sheila Ray Greguar from Bear Marriage.com

where we like to talk about healthy evidence-based biblical advice for your

marriage, your sex life, and your parenting and I am joined today. I have my

daughter Rebecca Lindenbach with me right now.

Hello. My husband Keith Grego is going to be joining me and Jenna Mountain, a licensed therapist,

trauma, trauma, and form therapist is going to be joining us to talk about E-M-D-R and trauma later on this podcast as well.

We are going to start with some research.

So today, we are in the middle of our launch for our new book She Deserves Better.

Yes we are.

Which is a book based on our survey of 7,000 women to see how experiences as teens affected them long term in terms of

relationship health, self-esteem, sexual satisfaction, etc etc etc.

We've looked at what we found out about dating rules in past podcast. We've looked at

modesty, we've looked at consent, we've looked at internalized misogyny and girls

talk too much and today we're going to turn to something slightly different which kind of encapsulates all of them

which is how girls are often asked to compensate for boys weaknesses, sins, or immaturity.

And how that ain't okay.

No, it is not.

No, our girls deserve better.

Yes, and our boys deserve better,

but that's a whole other thing.

Yes, because boys are better than that. So before we get doing that I

want to share some other research that we didn't do. Yes. And by the way for all of

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