If you're going to be put above us and teaching us in this way,

I'm going to trust that you know what you're talking about

and that you're safe and trustworthy.

And so when you tell me that's what you get for dating

and non-Christian, I don't hear that from youth pastor. I'm Sheila Ray Gregoire from Bear Marriage where we like to talk about healthy evidence-based biblical advice for your marriage, your sex life,

and now your parenting. And I am joined today by my daughter Rebecca Lindenbach.

Hello, hello. We are talking about consent, the consent message today on episode 184 of the Bear Marriage

Podcast. That's a lot of episodes. It is and today we are going to look at how the

messages that are given to our girls about consent or rather the messages that aren't given to our girls about consent can really hurt them.

We're in the middle of our launch for our new book, She Deserves Better,

Raising Girls to Resist Toxic Teaching on Sex, Self, and Speaking Up, which is out April 18th.

And we have a lot going on we have an amazing launch team which if you

pre-order the book and you're willing to write a review on Amazon or

Goodreads you can join that launch team we will put links in the

podcast notes but there's several hundred

people in there we're having an amazing time there yeah there's a lot of people it's

amazing to see there's lots of great discussion like we post one thing

and there's tons of comments and tons of discussion immediately. It's fantastic.

Three weeks ago, we did our first podcast on this,

looking at dating rules.

Yes, that's right.

We looked at the effects of the girls talk too much message as a thing of internalized misogyny.

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