Welcome to the Bear Marriage Podcast. I'm Sheila Ray Gregg.

We're from to love honor and vacuum.com where we like to talk about healthy evidence-based

biblical advice for your marriage and your sex life and I am joined today by my daughter Rebecca Lindenbach.

Hello. I'm hoping we're just going to have fun today, Becca.

This is one that I have been talking about on walks for a long time.

Yes, what we do is we go on walks with I have two kids with my

grandkids her kids and we just rant. Yes. And this is something which is your

favorite rant. Yes and this is we have to do this all in code at this point because I have a verbal son.

But, okay, I have a theory that I believe has been pretty proven at this point.

That first of all, I want to explain what a yes space is.

Okay.

So I'm a parent, I have a toddler and a baby.

There's this monosory concept of creating a yes space for your children which means in essence you're not

constantly running after and say don't touch that no not there don't touch that that's

not for you right so any cabinets they can't go into have a baby lock on it

everything is like at their level so they don't have to climb dangerously to go get things.

In essence, it's an environment that is created so that they can't fail.

Right.

Right. So, and it's been a fantastic way of doing parenting

for our family.

Okay, so you give your kids a yes space

so they get to do what they want and explore and they can't fail.

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