Episode 148: “Help Me See Where My Partner Is Coming From!” (Advice Episode)
Pillow Talks
Vanessa & Xander Marin
4.8 • 2.2K Ratings
🗓️ 21 March 2024
⏱️ 59 minutes
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Summary
“I just don’t understand where you’re coming from.”
Have you ever been in the heat of an argument with your partner, and felt totally unable see their perspective on the issue?
We put up a question box on Instagram and asked people to tell us about a conflict where they’re experiencing that kind of genuine confusion. Now, we’re breaking down the trickiest situations to help you see your partner’s point of view in a brand new light. You’ll get a fascinating sneak peek into what other couples fight about, and tons of useful relationship advice you haven’t heard before!
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| 0:00.0 | She had me for 90% of this until she said he asked her this a couple times a year. |
| 0:06.3 | To be fair. |
| 0:07.2 | I was thinking when I was reading this that this was like a once a month, multiple times a month kind of thing, but we're talking a couple of times a year. |
| 0:17.0 | Hello and |
| 0:25.0 | I'm a sex-therapist. We're your host Vanessa and Zander Marin. |
| 0:28.0 | I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience |
| 0:31.0 | and I'm just a regular dude. |
| 0:32.0 | We share the ups and downs in our |
| 0:34.1 | relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours. |
| 0:37.8 | Make sure you subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex |
| 0:42.3 | tips practical relationship advice, hilarious |
| 0:45.4 | and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much |
| 0:50.4 | more. It's the sex education you wish you'd had. |
| 0:55.0 | Thanks to Earth Breeze for supporting Pillow Talks. |
| 0:58.0 | Right now, save 40% when you subscribe to Earth Breeze. |
| 1:01.0 | Go to Earth Breeze. |
| 1:02.0 | Come slash Pillow to get started. |
| 1:05.0 | For today's episode, we turn to Instagram |
| 1:09.0 | and we put up a question box that said, |
| 1:12.0 | tell us something that you and your partner have been arguing about |
| 1:15.8 | where you just can't understand their perspective. What the hell are they |
| 1:20.0 | even thinking anyway? Yeah like you guys have talked about it you've argued about it they've |
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