She had me for 90% of this until she said he asked her this a couple times a year.

To be fair.

I was thinking when I was reading this that this was like a once a month, multiple times a month kind of thing, but we're talking a couple of times a year.

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For today's episode, we turn to Instagram

and we put up a question box that said,

tell us something that you and your partner have been arguing about

where you just can't understand their perspective. What the hell are they

even thinking anyway? Yeah like you guys have talked about it you've argued about it they've

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