Episode 149: Partner Having Penis Performance Problems? Here’s What To Do - And What Not To Do

Pillow Talks

Vanessa & Xander Marin

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.8 • 2.2K Ratings

🗓️ 28 March 2024

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

“This, uh, isn’t working…”

Most of us have experienced a partner having some performance issues in the bedroom, and feeling wildly confused about what to do. How do you react? What do you say?

And let’s be honest, most of us women take these moments personally. We get into our heads thinking things like, “Am I not attractive enough? Am I bad at sex??”

Today we’re breaking down for you why penis performance issues happen, and how men need you to respond in those extra-sensitive moments. Xander is also helping us non-penis owners understand what’s really going on inside men’s heads, and the pressures men feel around sex.

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Transcript

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0:00.0	I'm supposed to be the initiator I'm supposed to get hard immediately and stay
0:03.9	rock hard the entire time I'm supposed to last the perfect amount of time like
0:08.1	not too short not too long it really is this intensity of feeling like you know every aspect of these
0:16.4	interactions are my responsibility. I have to make sure it's good.
0:30.0	Hello and welcome to the Pillow Talks podcast. We're your host Vanessa and Zander Marin.
0:33.0	I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience.
0:36.0	And I'm just a regular dude.
0:38.0	We share the ups and downs in our relationship
0:40.0	while giving you step-by- step techniques for improving yours.
0:43.5	Make sure you subscribe for your weekly double date
0:45.8	full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice,
0:49.9	hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more.
0:56.0	It's the sex education you wish you'd had.
0:59.0	Thanks to ZocDoc for supporting Pillow Talks.
1:02.0	ZocDoc supporting Pillow Talks.
1:02.6	Zoc Doc is the only free app that lets you find and book doctors who are patient reviewed,
1:07.8	take your insurance, are available when you need them,
1:10.4	and treat almost every condition under the sun.
1:13.0	Go to ZocDoc.com slash pillow and download the ZocDoc app to sign up for free and book a top rated doctor.
1:22.0	I think we've all been here before. You're in the moment with your partner, things are starting to get hot and heavy.
1:28.0	I like where this is going. And one of you just is not showing up to the party.
1:36.0	Oh.
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