Hey guys, my name is John Kim. I'm a licensed therapist and life coach putting

self betterment into a shot class because let's face it who's got that much time

these days. I come unpolished, unrehearsed, on purpose.

If you're looking for more of a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place.

The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and

convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy, Martin Luther King

Jr.

The problem is God gave man a brain and a penis and only enough blood to run one at a time.

Robin Williams.

So if my book was a quote, it would fall right in between these two. Number nine don't pure over the metaphorical

urinal. So at a young age we discover our penis and we become fascinated by it.

And by we I mean men, boys.

Although it's always been there, we are suddenly intrigued and curious. We can't take it apart so we start playing

with it. We realize it gives us pleasure a new and exciting sensation and

the makes us feel powerful and subconsciously we begin to associate penis with power.

Middle school hits and the requirement to change for gym class

alerts us that penises come in all different sizes.

Our power is now compared with other boys power.

We go from feeling like Superman to Clark Cant,

or maybe I should use eye statements.

Now we're taking an object and internalizing it to determine our worth. This

thought pattern brings us anxiety and makes us feel less than. It is a pattern many young men struggle with and then continue to struggle with it to go through life.

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