Hey guys, it's Luke. Today's episode of TBTL is part two of our conversation with Andy Haines,

talking divorce and comedy and sex and failed open relationships. And if you didn't hear

yesterday's show for some reason, this would be a really good time for you to just stop and go

back and listen to that show so that you'll have more context for what's going on during this episode.

Also, today's show, like yesterday's show, has more frank, you know, talk about sex and

relationship stuff than you might sort of hear on your average edition of TBTL. So just be

warned about that. Mom, if you're listening.

All right, here we go with a Friday afternoon edition of TBTL. This is the show that just might be

too beautiful to live. I'm your host, Luke Burbank. Today's show is part two of our conversation with

my pal and pal of the show, comedian Andy Haines, who it turns out is also getting divorced.

What can I talk about? I have jokes. I don't really want to talk about them right now. I

found out yesterday that I'm getting divorced. I found out because I decided to get a divorce.

I was like, yeah, I think it's about time to get a divorce. This lady seems dangerous.

Back to the comedy thing for a minute. I mean, this is like the oldest sort of chestnut in the book

is like, oh, comedians are just, they just work it out on stage. But I mean, do you genuinely feel

like that's helping you a ton to talk about it out there like that?

You know, I think that for the longest time, I wanted to be the kind of comic that

kind of was this raw nerve that needed to, you know, rip my, you know, soul out and, you know,

bear, bear it all. And then I did a lot of stuff that I think was actually disingenuous.

Like, you know, I searched for stories in my life and I searched for things. And, you know,

I'm not saying that a lot of it was bullshit, but it was just like, I wasn't there. You know,

I was much more content and domestic and the bad things that it had in my life had been sad,

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