Hey guys, my name is John Kim. I'm a licensed therapist and life coach putting

self betterment into a shot class because let's face it who's got that much time

these days. I come unpolished, unrehearsed, on purpose.

If you're looking for more of a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place.

As I get older, my definition of beauty is changing when I was in my 20s my

definition of beauty was very one note it was skin deep it was predictable

but these days I think beauty skin deep, it was predictable.

But these days I think beauty is in the discovery.

I think it's in the unobvious, right?

I think the most beautiful things are found, not announced. So, and I, listen, I'm still a guy, and when I talk, when I say beauty beauty I'm talking about in all things not just

people but when it comes to

Relationships and the opposite sex.

For me, of course, I'm still a guy.

I still like a nice butt and I still like someone who's pretty and etc but like taste buds you know I think and

this is what I think I think it's a good thing our taste changes as we evolve and grow and I think that our definitions of beauty changes

too and I think this is really interesting when it comes to relationships because in our early years we usually

are one-notes because we don't have capacity and so we chase after are attracted to get involved with people

who we think are quote-unquote hot or people who move us or make us laugh or

make us feel something.

And then as we get older, we realize that relationships are built and that

hot is not enough.

We realize that it requires a lot more to have a sustaining meaningful relationship.

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