Episode 133: Dead Bedrooms Part 2: We Coach Another Couple Through Resuscitating Their Sex Life

Pillow Talks

Vanessa & Xander Marin

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.8 • 2.2K Ratings

🗓️ 7 December 2023

⏱️ 73 minutes

🔗️ Recording | iTunes | RSS

🧾️ Download transcript

Summary

“We’re just not having sex anymore...”

If you’ve found yourself uttering (or even just thinking) this line, you’re not alone. So many couples will experience a loss of not just their sex life but intimacy altogether.

When we released Dead Bedrooms Part One earlier this year, it instantly became one of our top episodes of all time. So we decided to bring it back for a Part Two with a brand new couple.

In this episode, you get to take a peek into another couple’s bedroom as we help them navigate how to resuscitate their sex life. We’re giving our top pointers for reconnecting inside the bedroom and out, tips on how to move through the difficult conversations, and a few suggestions for resources that can help the process along. A dead bedroom can feel draining and never-ending but we promise you there is a light at the end of the tunnel if you’re willing to keep going!

Links & Resources:

Book: Sex Talks: The 5 Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life

Course: Art Of Initiation

Course: Rediscovering Us

Website: Home Page

If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you had!

Transcript

Click on a timestamp to play from that location

0:00.0	you can pick up on that vibe like it doesn't feel sexy it doesn't feel enticing it turns it into
0:06.2	sex that's like just crossing something off the to-do list instead of a genuine connection
0:11.6	between two people who love each other.
0:13.4	Hello and welcome to the Pillow Talks podcast.
0:22.6	We're your host Vanessa and Xander Marin.
0:25.4	I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience.
0:28.3	And I'm just a regular dude.
0:29.9	We share the ups and downs in our relationship
0:32.1	while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving
0:34.6	yours.
0:35.6	Make sure you subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship
0:41.2	advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind
0:45.6	closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you'd had.
0:55.0	Thanks to Zoc Doc for supporting Pillow Talks. Zoc Doc is the only free app that lets you find and book doctors who are patient reviewed,
1:01.0	take your insurance, are available when you need them and treat almost every condition
1:04.9	under the sun. Go to ZocDoc.com slash Pillow and download the Zoc Doc
1:10.6	app to sign up for free and book a top rated doctor.
1:14.9	Thanks to Dipsy for supporting Pillow Talks.
1:17.5	Get an extended 30-day free trial
1:19.8	when you go to dipsy stories.
1:22.3	dot com slash pillow.
1:25.0	This episode is sponsored by Uncommon Goods, an online shop dedicated to unique and high
	...

Please login to see the full transcript.

Previous episode | Next episode

Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Vanessa & Xander Marin, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.

Generated transcripts are the property of Vanessa & Xander Marin and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.