Episode 132: Why We Started Making Out Every Night

Pillow Talks

Vanessa & Xander Marin

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.8 • 2.2K Ratings

🗓️ 30 November 2023

⏱️ 74 minutes

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Summary

This episode is all about the most viral piece of content we’ve ever made - why we make out every single night before bed. Our two-minute video has amassed almost 20 million views on social, was talked about on daytime TV shows, and even landed us an interview with the New York Times. We had no idea that this topic would be so popular, but it clearly struck a nerve!

So we decided to break our nightly ritual down for you in more detail and answer the most common questions we get asked. We’re spilling the beans on:

Why we decided to do it in the first place
If it’s awkward getting it started every night
If we still do it even when we’re angry with each other
If it makes intimacy feel like an obligation or a chore

Links & Resources:

Book: Sex Talks: The 5 Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life

Guide: Art Of Initiation

Instagram: @vanessaandxander

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Transcript

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0:00.0	30 minutes, that's a long time.
0:03.0	And I was like, oh, no, no, no, no,
0:05.8	seconds, 30 seconds, not 30 minutes.
0:09.8	Like nobody's got time to make out for 30 minutes a day every single day.
0:14.0	Hello and welcome to the Pillow Talks Podcast.
0:20.0	Hello and
0:25.0	I'm just a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience and I'm just a regular dude.
0:30.0	We share the ups and downs in our relationship
0:32.0	while giving you step- step techniques for improving yours.
0:36.0	Make sure you subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice,
0:42.0	hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind
0:45.9	closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you'd had.
0:55.0	Thanks to Storyworth for supporting Pillow Talks. Storyworth is a meaningful gift you and your family can treasure forever
0:59.0	and you can get started right away.
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1:07.2	And thanks to Jeju, the luxury sex toy brand for supporting pillow talks. Go to JEE-J-O-U-E dot com
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