Episode 134: Everything You’re Getting Wrong About Intercourse (And How To Get It Right)

Pillow Talks

Vanessa & Xander Marin

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.8 • 2.2K Ratings

🗓️ 14 December 2023

⏱️ 61 minutes

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Summary

We all feel like we’re supposed to just be naturally good at intercourse, but there are so many dynamics that can trip us up! What positions are best? How do you MOVE during it? What do you do if one of you can easily orgasm from intercourse, but the other can’t?!

We asked our audience what their biggest frustrations are when it comes to intercourse, and we got back some surprising, and some not-so-surprising, answers. We struggled with intercourse early in our own relationship, so we related to a lot of responses.

In this episode, we’re sharing exactly what to do to fix these common challenges. And Xander even gives us the inside scoop on the male perspective when it comes to the challenges and pressures of intercourse.

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Guide: Next Level Intercourse

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0:00.0	There are certain positions or certain moments or for certain brief periods of time.
0:04.0	There's a time and a place for it, but I think overall I would say that men are doing it
0:09.2	far more often than women want. Hello and welcome to the Pillow Talks Podcast.
0:17.0	We're your host Vanessa and Zander Marin. I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience.
0:26.6	And I'm just a regular dude. We share the ups and downs in our relationship while giving you
0:31.1	step-by-step techniques for improving yours.
0:34.0	Make sure you subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship
0:39.6	advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors
0:45.0	and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you'd had.
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1:20.0	Today we are talking about intercourse because you're doing it wrong.
1:26.0	You're doing it wrong.
1:28.0	You're doing it wrong.
1:29.0	What does you're doing it wrong come from in the first place?
1:32.0	I feel like you and I have
1:33.7	been making that joke forever probably as long as we've been together you're
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